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We’re in the home stretch now! September 4, 2010

Posted by Bruce Mulkey in Parenting, Pregnancy.
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Well, tomorrow (Sunday, September 5) is our due date, and we’re prepared. The nursery is ready, our home is well-organized and clean, the refrigerator is stocked with easy-to-prepare foods, our bags for the hospital are packed and, yes, the email to relatives and a few other folks is back in the “Drafts” folder ready to be sent . . . for real this time.

In anticipation of the big day we’ve read the books, taken a childbirth class, participated in a breast feeding class, toured the hospital, conferred with our doctors and doula regularly, chosen our birth preferences (as natural as possible), prepared the feline family members, been blessed by Rev. Howard Hanger and our fellow Jubilants and received and responded to good wishes from friends and relatives throughout the U.S. and beyond.

So, now we wait. As some of you may know, I am not a particularly patient man. I like to make things happen. And I’m pretty good at it. This is not one of those times, however. Baby arrives when he or she is ready by releasing a hormone that starts labor and the birth process.

FYI, when labor begins for Shonnie, we’ll stay at home for a while, and Mayari, our doula, will join us here for support. Once labor becomes more pronounced, we’ll all head for Mission Hospital, which is very momma/baby/dad friendly. One our physicians (either Dr. Lisa or Dr. Susan) will join us there, and a Mission nurse (who’s on board with our birth preferences) will also become part of our team.

I trust that Shonnie instinctively knows what to do as does Baby. My job and our team’s will be to be there for Shonnie—physically, emotionally and spiritually—for this sacred event while having faith in the process.

Once Baby is born, he/she and Shonnie will be inseparable, skin-to-skin, and nursing will commence soon thereafter. After a short stay at the hospital, we’ll head for home where Shonnie will rest for several days before attempting to do anything other than just be with Baby. We’ll do our best to get word out to friends and family about the birth, but communication may be inconsistent during this time.

For the first month, we plan for just the three of us to spend time together, getting to know one another, bonding, enjoying one another, deciding on a name (first, middle and last). So you may not be seeing much of us until sometime in October.

It’s already apparent that Shonnie is going to be a marvelous mom. In fact, the joyful, conscious, loving, devoted manner in which she’s carried our child is a testament to the way she’ll mother Baby after he/she arrives. And until then, we relax, share dinner and movie (perhaps the last opportunity for the two of us to go out for a while) and anticipate our little bundle of joy’s arrival during the coming days.

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1. Mary Rich Hill - September 4, 2010

So happy for you three! Thank you for letting all of us be a part of this pregnancy journey. I’m sure if a lot of us had to do it over, we would be as intentional as you and Shonnie have been. Keep us posted! Your community is waiting and excited!

2. Abby Bates - September 4, 2010

Yeah !!! I am so happy for you guys as you await baby’s birth. My prediction is Labor Day ( Monday ) is it any wonder ?! How appropriate !!!

3. Bruce Mulkey - September 4, 2010

Thanks a lot, y’all! Shonnie and I both really appreciate your kind and compassionate messages. We’ll keep you posted!

4. Jenny Meadows - September 4, 2010

I love how well you’ve prepared US as well! Hugs, you impatient man (my foot!), Jen & Ian

Shonnie - September 4, 2010

Thanks for being along for the ride you two. It’s been such a well supported journey for the three of us!


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